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Monday, March 31, 2014

shochu


the problem with the london dining scene, i often lament, is how it rewards the well-organised. falling on the less-organised half of the line, i don't have my life planned weeks in advance. i wish i did, but visibility is something we sorely lack. but some times, being spontaneous has its perks. we planned to meet dear friends for a long overdue catch up but as with most weekends, our timing and theirs was so flexible what was intended as afternoon coffee ended up a fashionably late dinner. by the time we decided, roka was fully-booked but the hostess said they do walk-ins for bar and terrace. not wanting to second-hand smoke over dinner, we opted for bar seats and were told it would be a forty minute wait. not bad, considering it was already 830pm on a saturday night. so we headed to shochu to wait for our table and the time just whizzed by. was fascinated by the dry ice (cheap thrill) and huge carving block the bartenders were hacking at every now and again. the drinks were yummy (the mister had a nippon express with bells on) and by the time our friends came, our table was almost ready.

our friends had been traveling iceland and greenland before and we were keen to hear about their adventures. we've a soft spot for iceland, but have yet to visit greenland. although i doubt it'll be too long more after hearing about their amazing time there. i've known K since primary one and we reconnected during the bar exam course. the mister independently knew her lucky man and they're a couple that really fits. at an age where most of our friends are in serious relationships, it's always such an inspiration to be with a couple who are so compatible together. we lost track of time and before we knew it, it was 1am and the staff had long stopped topping up our drinks. the tasting menu was enjoyable as ever, but the company was truly the highlight of our evening. yay for marathon meals and friendships that last despite the oceans between.

Saturday, March 29, 2014

richmond park

i don't know about you but this photo reminds me of the everglades in florida, minus the lazing croc or two. who'd have thought summer would come so early to london! we try to leave weekends free and easy so as to make the most of the fickle english sun should it deign to appear. one recent sunday, we practiced the time-honoured meterological check and stuck our arms out of the window. it was warm and sunny and away we went! richmond is a lovely lovely part of london and we don't need much of an excuse to pop over. after a leisurely lunch at petersham nursery, we took the road less traveled and explored the river bank. 

and after we walked as far as we could without getting our toes wet (sorry, being a city girl has left me wet feet-averse. no connecting with nature etc for me!) we crept back through this herd of wild deer in richmond park. how about that? from the everglades to the serengeti in a matter of minutes. gotta love london and the little surprises up her sleeve :) also love the soft serve ice cream we stopped for, and a nap in the park on our well-seasoned picnic mat.

Wednesday, March 26, 2014

tea garden


one of london's best kept secrets are the little back gardens some cafes have. sure, in summer, every cafe worth its weight in coffee beans advertises its terrace. but in spring, oh spring, the sandwich boards have yet to come out and these gardens are deliciously underpopulated. we stumbled upon maison blanc's a few weekends ago and felt like we were transported off busy fulham road and into a tranquil bamboo grove. we sat half-half (the mister in the sun, me in the shade), each in our element  as we talked about our respective weeks. 

when we were both lawyers*, we didn't talk about work very much (after a whole week at work, it's the last thing on our minds!) but now, talking about work is back on the table. it'd been a particularly harrowing week with some of the more sobering aspects of women's health (infertility, intra-uterine death and fetal abnormalities) and i was glad for the mister to bounce ethical dilemmas off. he's the kindest, most articulate soul i know and hearing his measured, utilitarian take on things always leaves me feeling comforted.

*he insists i was merely a pupil and never a lawyer. i insist i've been called to the bar and am therefore a qualified lawyer.

Monday, March 24, 2014

cheeky coastal monday




it's been a punishing rotation with early starts and long shifts. often asked if i actually go to school (yes i do) but really, posting about work / photos of me schlepping around in scrubs is too self-indulgent for this already very self-indulgent blog. so it was nice when midway through the rotation, i randomly had the afternoon off. my army captain (husband-brag) tells me there's this saying, 'act blur, live longer' which translates to... well, how being unquestioning is key to longevity. there may or may not have been a scheduling oversight that led to my time off, but i wasn't about to find out ;) seized the opportunity to make for the coast and after a scenic train ride, spent a glorious afternoon walking along the beach. had thought a long walk would be good exercise but inevitably ended up stopping along the way for cake, hot chocolate and ice cream. oops.

Saturday, March 22, 2014

bukowski brixton



we've passed bukowski on previous forays to brixton but was always too full / not craving burgers and meat. this time, however, we went with the sole purpose of finally eating there. never mind that we didn't know the name. it was all muscle memory by then! went early and the staff were kind to let us sit at a four top because i'm a bit of a pansy and averse to 'food-smell'. the tables further in were basking in that BBQ aroma i didn't fancy smelling of when we left. poor ventilation aside, the menu was hearty (check out that tabacco onion!) and i really enjoyed the boozy milkshakes we had :)

Thursday, March 20, 2014

lone daffodil

so i mentioned assagi in the london restaurant post, and this was how lunch looked on our most recent visit. i love how tranquil it is despite being in the heart of buzzing notting hill. to be fair, we'd only been once before but the amazing waiter remembered us (!!!) right down to where we sat and what we'd talked about. quite embarrassingly, we'd forgotten the mister had casually mentioned a work trip to abruzzo but he recalled that little tidbit and we were floored. way to go to make us feel welcomed and known :) also appreciated how he recommended a cheaper wine when we described what we were after and it was excellent. small things like that leave me feeling all warm and fuzzy, how nice not to be ripped off for a change. old habits die hard and i can get so suspicious sometimes, much to the mister's chargrin. it was a lovely afternoon and we ended up having a three hour lunch, soaking in the dappled light and eating our way through sicilly.

the menu's all in italian (plus points for authenticity) but the staff are quick to explain the menu and are flexible on portion sizes.

Wednesday, March 19, 2014

our little and by no means exhaustive london restaurant guide


franco manco pizza at brixton market row

the mister and i have lots of friends passing through town. much as we wish we could take everyone everywhere, we can't. so. the next best thing is to forward our little london list of places we've been to and like. much as we're thrilled to share our favourite haunts, i'm not the biggest fan of free publicity. this is not a food blog (god forbid!) and i try not to photograph food unless it's truly photo-worthy. no, not hating on food blogs, just that i rather leave it to those talented enough to articulate what biting into molten uni feels like. we've not accepted any favours nor freebies from these restaurants and any views are purely mine. i also hope they don't spit in my food the next time, especially after commenting that the service in some places was lacking... being the cheap date i am, i realise in retrospect that most of the places have a good value set lunch in common. £26 can go very far (3 course set lunch at 1 star establishment!) or not far at all (soup, sandwich and coffee x 2 at pret) so it's all about hunting down that ever-elusive deal in the sweet spot of value and quality. lengthy pre-amble aside, here it is! have linked the website and the occasional post from my archives if i've mentioned it before. hope it's of use if you're in london at some point. happy feasting, and would love to hear from you if you've liked / disliked any of the places mentioned.

Japanese
Ikeda Mayfair
30 Brook St, Mayfair, London W1K 5DJ
020 7629 2730
Small family-run restaurant hidden away on a quiet street opposite the famous Claridge’s Hotel. Seasonal menu with regular favourites. Good for authentic Japanese cuisine. Must order: tempura prawn wrapped in cha soba (life-changing!!!), tonkatsu and yomenaki (?) somen (special Japanese noodles). Unless absolutely craving, we don’t usually order the sushi / sashimi.

Japanese clients first brought the mister and spoilt him with the £160 omakase. There are also less extravagant sets! An unusual mix of Japanese businessmen and American tour groups. We particularly like the good value (£20) sushi / sashimi / tempura set lunches and is our go-to for Sunday lunch.

Sake No Hana Mayfair
Contemporary Japanese, feels like being inside a giant “ang klong” the bamboo musical instrument. Good value pre-theatre / early dinner set for £30. Interesting cocktails, well-dressed crowd. Same owner as Hakkasan.

Tsukiji Mayfair
Traditional Japanese restaurant. Not a big restaurant but open concept and chic interior. If you’re after something simpler, Sakura just down the road is more wallet-friendly.

Zuma Knightsbridge
Roka’s big sister. Tasting menu is expensive but nice for special occasions. Similar contemporary / fusion Japanese cuisine.

The Sloane branch of the Marbella restaurant of the same name. Kitsch art deco interior and dishes with twee names like ‘Forever Love’ or something to that effect. Good value set lunch, not too busy and great attention to detail and presentation. Would go by if in the area but might not make a special trip if not already in Chelsea.

Nizuni Charlotte Street
“outlet” Japanese probably isn’t fair but whatever new dish Roka is serving, Nizuni will produce something similar in a matter of weeks at a lower price. Good value and always fast service, important when jetlagged and wanting to turn in early.  Consistent Japanese of good quality. Used to have an early bird special where it was 30% off a la carte if ordered before 7pm. Check if it’s still ongoing.

Roka Charlotte Street
£55/£75 tasting menu. Goodfor groups, big portions. If there are 3 people, you could comfortably share 2 tasting menus. More fusion than traditional Japanese but done with a good flair. We like Shochu (the bar downstairs)  with DJ for pre/post dinner drinks. Closes late. We stayed till 1am the last time (not our fault, seated at 930 and ordered the tasting menu...) and the service got understandably sloppy as the night wore on.

Sushi Tetsu Bloomsbury
7 seater sushi restaurant. Have to be incredibly organised to get a booking (call exactly a month earlier at 10am and keep ringing till you get through, if at all!) but worth the effort. Proprietor is a one man show and makes sushi with the greatest pride.

Yashin High Street Kensington
Contemporary Japanese just off High Street Kensington, consistently high standards. Sleek sushi counter and cosy (read: dim with minimal mobile reception) lower ground dining area. On the pricier side but they’ve a good value chirashi / bento sort of lunch for <£20. A la carte menu is interesting, the motto is ‘without soy sauce, but if you want to’.

The Shiori Bayswater
Fine Japanese omakase with a choice of seasonal and premium tasting menus. Always a surprise and dainty portions of quality over quantity. Well-spaced out so you do feel full by the end, but not overly so. My birthday dinner of choice two years running!

Eat Tokyo various locations
Cheep and cheerful Japanese in the city with great value set lunches. Don't expect to have your mind blown but for <£10 for an authentic gyu-don I'm not complaining. Popular with Japanese salarimen and student-types.

Casual Japanese noodle options
Ramen in thick collagen-laden stock. Also try the ‘cock scratching’ (minds out of the gutter, it’s fried chicken bits…) and home-made soft-serve ice cream. Awesome sesame soft serve, and the shiso was very interesting. Seasonal and luck of the draw to see what they’ve whipped up that day. Standard dropped recently. Was a regular for about two years but either my tastes have changed or it’s not as good as it used to be. Visiting friends who tried were also disappointed but that could’ve been my oversell.

Tonkatsu* Soho
Where we go for ramen when we can’t be bothered to queue at Bone Daddies. I’m not a fan but the mister says it’s improved.

Koya* Soho
Udon! Cold udon in dipping sauce and seasonal specials. Koya Bar next door is similar but smaller menu and a tad more casual.


Chinese
Hakkasan Mayfair
Low lights and loud music at night but just low lights in the day, unless seated upstairs during lunch time then it’s quite bright with a business lunch vibe. Modern chinese cuisine with a good dimsum menu. Must try the venison char siew soh.

The closest to a “cha teng” in London. Only ever been for dimsum and surprisingly well-priced for the upmarket locale. About £20/person for dimsum and that’s with the mister over-ordering as usual. No nonsense, fuss free, and a little harried. Be prepared to wait up to 20min despite having a reservation.

Gold Mine* Bayswater
102 Queensway, London W2 3RR
020 7792 8331
Doesn’t take reservations so go before 7pm or after 9pm to avoid a terrible queue. Traditional Cantonese cooking and most famous for plump and juicy roast duck. Our standard order is deboned roast duck, sweet and sour pork, fried rice with chicken and salted fish, sambal kang kong and specialty steamed egg with dried scallops and prawn.

Royal China Bayswater
Famous for dimsum but we go for the lobster noodles. Baker Street is the original branch but they don’t take reservations and we’ve once braved a 90min queue and swore never again. If you do go to Baker Street, however, try ordering off the menu. A connoisseur friend introduced us to the Thai-style tiger prawn with fried tang hoon and we've not looked back. Lobster noodle best ordered one lobster at a time. Because ordering lobster noodle with two lobsters is inevitably less than 2 x one lobster noodle orders. Go figure!

Min Jiang High Street Kensington
Chinese restaurant with beautiful views of Kensington Park so best to go during daylight. A little hit and miss re: dimsum, some dishes are better than others. Must order the xiao long bao and the peking duck (pre-order). Also the fish soup with salted vegetable is something I’ve not had at many places.

Hutong The Shard
A great way to see the city from the tallest building in Western Europe compared to paying to ride the lift to the viewing platform. I’ve been told on good authority that the men’s room is one of the best with its floor to ceiling windows and unobstructed view of the city below. Breath-taking views aside (hey, we’re from Singapore, we’re used to 60+ storey skyscraping hotels…) the food and drinks are great. Have the soft shell crab (ask for less spicy if you’re weaksauce like us) and it’s served in a whopping huge lantern-basket. An inside tip from the charismatic owner was, “The best view is from 9.30pm so don't go too early or if you have an early dinner then stay around for desserts and cocktails in aqua shard on level 31 and watch the night view suddenly materialize.”


Korean
Jubo* Shoreditch
Korean fried chicken washed down by Korean beer. Very casual! Young and grungy, more than its fair share of hipsters. Avoid if you don’t like crowds or loud music. If you're after authentic Korean food though, your best bet would be the small K-town in New Malden (suburb in South West London in Kingston upon Thames).

Indian
Benares Mayfair
In a moment of insanity, the mister ordered the £60 tandoori chicken. Hands down the best tandoori ever (and we’ve had plenty of good tandoor to compare!) but still unsure if it was really worth SGD120 for a bird. Good value set dinner though and he's convinced it’s the best Old Fashioned he’s ever had. Pity we didn’t get the bartender’s name.

Italian
Assagi Notting Hill
1st floor, 39 Chepstow Place
London
W2 4TS

020 7792 5501 

Our little Italian secret. Beautiful on a sunny afternoon with floods of soft, natural light. The waiters are charming and knowledgeable. To borrow John Lewis’ line, we’ve never been knowingly oversold at Assagi. The waiter would recommend a cheaper bottle of wine if he felt it was better. Hearty, seasonal Italian with the freshest ingredients. Can’t recommend this enough and it’s easily our favourite Italian in London. 
Lucio’s Chelsea
Authentic owner-run Italian with fresh seasonal produce. I like how it’s not salty, in contrast to how many restaurants in London are heavy-handed with the salt. Good value lunch £20 for 1 or 2 courses, £25 for 3 courses.

Zafferano Knightsbridge
Near Harrods, well-heeled crowd. Often meet familiar faces from Singapore there. Again, good quality, hearty Italian. Less expensive than one would anticipate for the area. £45 for a 3 course dinner and similarly competitively priced (£30?) for a 2-3 course lunch.

Bocca di Lupo Mayfair
Hazarded the pop up in the park last summer and was impressed by the no-choice 3 course dinner. Given the limitations of the make-shift kitchen, it was beautifully set up in a big white tent with fairy lights. The main restaurant is throbbing with energy and we can't resist the dairy-free dark chocolate sorbet from Gelupo, their shop across  the street.

French
Classic French. Order the chicken the day before if you’re well organised.

Gastropub
Harwood Arms Fulham
Casual, perfect for a low key meal. Shabby chic interior with a country house feel. Excellent dishes, each very well executed using the freshest ingredients and deftest of touches. Was pleasantly surprised by just how good it was. It’s in a residential neighbourhood though and almost impossible to get parking at lunch time.


Modern British
Medlar Chelsea
Our go-to when we’ve friends in town. Consistently high qualitycuisine and impeccable service. Very fairly priced (£25 for 3 course set lunch) and excellent value for money. A bit hard to get to from city centre (tube to Sloane Square then bus because it’s a 20-30min walk otherwise!) but one could do worse than walking off lunch along King’s Road. Order the crab raviolo to start and underblade fillet for the main. The tarte tatin (for two) is amazing.

Ledbury Notting Hill
Lunch tasting menu (£100 without wine) if you don’t feel like a long-drawn 5h dinner. Alternatively, can always have dinner a la carte but feel the ambience is better enjoyed in daylight. Our dear friends gifted us a meal there as a wedding present and we're so grateful for their generosity!

Modern British cuisine with delightful extras (amuse bouche, pre-dessert, petit fours) even if you only order the 3 course set lunch. Seasonal menu and always well executed. At <£30 for a 3 course set lunch, it’s great value.

Kitchen Table Charlotte Street
Behind a heavy curtain at Bubble Dogs. 11 course tasting menu, 2 sittings. Open kitchen concept and the seats are literally around the chef’s kitchen. Great for foodies to watch the artful display and all the work that goes behind beautiful plating. In-laws were a bit cheeky and wanted to get a hotdog on the way out. James, the chef owner, was mock horrified.

Dinner by Heston Knightsbridge
For those who want a taste of Heston magic without having to make the trek to Fat Duck in Bray. Mandarin Oriental is a beautiful hotel and in the day, the restaurant looks into Hyde Park. Order the Meat Fruit (liver parfait), Snails Porridge and Tipsy Cake for dessert. The liquid nitrogen ice cream (churned at your table in 5minutes) is a visual and gastronomic treat.

Bar Boulud Knightsbridge
Good steak and drinks. French food is a laid back lounge-y setting. When we last went, my father was checked for taking photos inside. Beware strict staff and no photos policy. Another good value set lunch.

Koffman’s Knightsbridge
Good value set lunch inside effortlessly chic Berkely Hotel.

Quirky and fun, Sketch is more well-known for its unique egg-shaped toilet cubicals. The dining room serves modern cuisine and the food was done very well. There’s a trippy bar downstairs, and a nice-looking tea salon. Usually a hit with friends visiting London.

40 Maltby Street* Southark
Modern British tapas-style. Interesting selection of wines and knowledgeable sommelier. Good for light meals at the bar or small groups. Go early (1130 on a Saturday) to beat the crowd.

The Clove Club Shoreditch
Formerly the Shoreditch Town Hall, there’s a £55 no-choice tasting menu with seasonal produce. When we went in February, there was pine seasoned deep fried buttermilk (?) chicken bites and uni among other delectables. They also cure their own meats on site (you’ll see the joints hung out to cure by the front room) and the cold cuts had a subtle and distinct quality about them.

Casual
Patty & Bun* Mayfair
One of the best burgers in London but feel standard has dropped in the last few months. Used to have best chicken wings too but when we last went, they were disappointing. The Jose burger is a must-try though! Doesn’t take reservations so be prepared to wait in line, or order and take away to eat in nearby Hyde Park. It’s opposite Selfridges so a good break from shopping / can shop while having the member of your party who drew the short straw queue for you.


Bubbledogs* Charlotte Street
No reservations so go off-peak or be prepared to queue. Simply put, they serve hotdogs with champagne. Good selection of bubbles across a wide price range. Tasty hotdogs and a novel idea to pair with champagnes.

Duck & Waffle Liverpool Street
Abysmal service. Have a been a few times and it’s always frustrating trying to get attention / orders  in / drinks topped up etc. But it’s got cracking views of the city and great forvisitors, a wallet-friendly alternative to Hutong and the views from the Shard. Order crispy pigs ears (shredded and served in a brown paper bag with wax seal!) and eponymous duck & waffle. Open 24/7 but runs a reduced menu at night. Always crowded so book or go off-peak. Last Christmas Eve, we went by at 2am after prepping our Christmas goose. Snazzy bar and good drinks too!

Dirty Burger Vauxhall
The mister's all-time favourite burger in London. Pokey, smokey grill under the railway tracks with the shortest of menus i.e. burger with / without cheese, fries and milkshake but when you only serve one dish, it's almost guaranteed to be amazing. Onion rings are freshly cut and battered, and all patties handmade on site and cooked with tender loving care. Thick milkshakes if you feel your arteries aren't sufficiently clogged after the burger. Good stuff. Hard to find but worth the search. 

Casual and serves lobster amongst other things
Burger & Lobster* Mayfair / Shoreditch / Soho
£20 for grilled lobster, salad and fries. Also £20 for a burger, salad and fries. Or a lobster brioche roll. No brainer to order the grilled lobster. But the lobster brioche is also very good and great for sharing if you’re feeling extra hungry. Drinks are expensive (£10 for a weak cocktail!) and poor value.

Steam & Rye Shoreditch
Formerly Bank of New York building and it’s maintained the huge columns and USA paraphernalia. Dancing girls on Friday night and drinks for groups served in huge shark / dinosaur / crocodile heads (see no. 7 in link) complete with sparklers and musical extravaganza. Imagine the house music changing to Star Wars / Indiana Jones theme as the waitstaff don costumes and present the drinks with attention-grabbing fanfare. Overflowing with banker / baller / pseudo-baller types.

5cc Shoreditch
New bar under pub. Most people were there for drinks but we enjoyed the food (£25 for lobster with salad and fries) too. Dark and a little dingy but that seems to be fashionable now.

Big Easy Chelsea
£20 for grilled lobster, salad, fries and a frozen margarita. Live music, themed nights (different dishes go on special offer depending on the day so call ahead to check!) and a relaxed vibe like you’d expect in an American diner.

Brunch
Grainger & Co.* Notting Hill
Popular Aussie café that has a long queue after 930am. Our go-to for when we’ve houseguests / friends from Singapore landing at 0555h. The ricotta pancakes and corn patties are consistently yummy. And they make one of the best flat whites in London.

Laduree Harrods* Knightsbridge
French patisserie that does a delightful brunch menu. All pastel teacups and crockery. Order the French toast! Breakfast set is not good value (we’ve done the math, you don’t really save and probably designed to trap indecisive tourists) so better to go a la carte.

Roka Canary Wharf 
Same as above and said to do a decent brunch with champagne for an additional £25.

The Modern Pantry Clerkenwell
Fusion cooking with an Asian twist. The waffles with laksa leaves was good!

Great space with natural light and artwork. I appreciated how the guests with children were banished to a separate wing so as to spare the rest of us mayhem. It’s a chilled sort of place and the fabulous (male) host was wearing a skirt. We’re cool with that and think it’s great that people are comfortable enough to be themselves and express themselves however they want. BUT. Not somewhere I’d bring my parents/ more conservative guests. Standard brunch fare, like it for the ambience and vibe more than the actual food quality. Regent’s Canal is a lovely area and a nice walk after.

Berner’s Tavern
Oxford Street
Crazy high ceilings with framed paintings all over the walls. Feels like you’ve wandered into a museum / country house drawing room. Good brunch selection and conveniently located off Oxford Street.

Markets
Many Borough Market vendors have since de-camped to Maltby Street. Go early (before noon) to score some legendary St John’s cream donuts then grab a coffee from the push cart and head straight to Monty’s pastrami queue. The Lasco shop is a treasure trove of vintage finds if that’s your thing. If not there’s a wine merchant by the entrance selling good growths from lesser-known producers.

Chef’s gallette by the engaging Frenchman, freshly pulled beer in from the wine shop, pho and Vietnamese iced coffee and then walk along the river and hop into a riverboat café for coffee and cake, or something stronger like a mojito from the riverboat bars.

Recently gentrified, Brixton is no longer grungy and gang-controlled, although Brixton Village is probably the only place overrun by the recent hipster influx. There’s a good selection of eateries and mostly no reservations so where we frequent depends on how hungry we are vs queue length. Aunthentic Thai restaurant that we like by the entrance, but if that’s full we might have Honest Burger or Okan (Japanese street food of fried rice wrapped in omelette) that takes it name from ‘economy’ further in. Almost always stop at Federation Coffee which the mister enjoys but I find the coffee too tart and end up with a hot / cold chocolate. A little way away at Market Row, there’s the famous Franco Manco pizza (wood-fired and as close to Naples as we’ve gotten from London) and Bukowski for burgers, ribs and boozy milkshakes.

Supperclub
The London Foodie’s supper club Angel Islington luizhara@hotmail.com
Luiz is a former investment banker turned Cordon Bleu trained chef who runs a French and a Japanese supperclub from his gorgeous home in Islington. It’s a communal dining table but most dishes are individually plated and it’s always a bit of a lucky dip who you’re seated with. If you’re feeling antisocial, we’ve found it’s best to double date to avoid the awkward small talk. But the one time we went just us, we found ourselves next to hair stylist extraordinaire to whom we’ve since sworn hair loyalty to (Tom Tsang of Smith Salon on Poland Street). Get onto Luiz’ mailing list to snap up supperclub spaces once they become available. £45 for a 7 course Japanese feast. Great quality and always a good night, especially with BYOB :) And if you’re on the market for a haircut, we highly recommend Tom.

For ease of booking, most restaurants can be booked on Bookatable or Toptable, which often run special offers. It’s probably a gimmick but you can accumulate points by turning up at reservations and these points can be redeemed as vouchers.

*does not accept reservations

Saturday, March 15, 2014

the wonders of fb

so earlier this year i went into a little anti-fb rant. while i'm still wary and more selective about posts, i can't deny that fb has its fabulous moments too.

the first place we stayed in london was a converted bus depot, which may or not have been approved for human habitation. it was doubtlessly functional, as any bus depot space divided into two storeys and a couple of "rooms" would be, and an instant base for us to find our feet from. but it wasn't home and we're glad to have moved into a one bedder since. spent most of summer 2012 furnishing the space and as with most shoebox apartments, we had to be space efficient. we've always wanted a comfortable sofa that would engulf you as you flop onto it. the sofa we got wasn't. instead,  it was inexpensive, practical and multi-tasking.  


yet what you pay is what you get. much as the mister and i go for good value, sometimes you've just gotta bite the bullet and dig deep into the pocket. we've been on the look out for our perfect sofa for the longest time and after a near miss last summer, the mister struck sofa jackpot last week. it's times like this i'm especially grateful for a husband who enjoys furniture shopping and negotiates a 77% discount (originally 60% off but he somehow charmed a further 17% out!) for a defect-free UK-made piece. other times i lament how it's me on the receiving end of his persuasive power, like when i find myself hiking and kayaking against my will. it's quite unreal, really, how we ended up getting our grown up / grow old with me sofa. which brings us back to the small flat. timing was of the essence and at a pinch, we could probably fit the new sofa and not have much floor space left. 

in true tag team fashion, the mister sorted out delivery and i set about arranging collection for our starter sofa before said delivery. it's only 18 months old and in good condition so the obvious thing to do was to donate it to a charity shop that offered free collection. but it was such a faff trying to get the british*heart foundation to pick it up. i called the hotline that wasn't a hotline but the swansea (?) outlet then got directed to wandsworth which was no help and diverted me to ealing. after half an hour there was still no direction! got fed up and thought i'd chance fb. within minutes, a london-based friend got in touch, said she'd rent a zipvan and collect it in the morning. snooze you lose, bhf! thrilled that L took the sofa off our hands with no fuss. the sweetheart even gave us chocolates when i should be thanking her for sparing me the charity shop collection nightmare! all it took was one fb post and good timing :) yay for economy and resourceful friends!

Thursday, March 13, 2014

a spanner in the plans

so i was having one of those stretches where i thought i knew what i wanted to do (HAHA) and life was trundling along at a nice pace. there i was - relatively confident that i was in medicine to do XYZ. and then we start women's health / obs&gynae this week and OHMYMAMA i realise that i actually really really enjoy the work. more so than i've been interested in anything else. i like working with / supporting women. i mean, i'm such a feminist. all about female empowerment and loving your fellow (wo)man in an entirely non-sapphic kind of way. and once you get over how it's all the business end of lady parts, it's really quite fascinating.

you've got to understand that what put me off medicine the very first time (after A levels) was O&G. i had a sub-optimal internship experience, met doctors who regretted doing medicine and saw three women doctors break down on the wards. one harried MO only saw her 6 month old son on weekends (he lived with her parents), another called her child 'it' and the third, a neonatologist on call, was in tears at the thought of caring for everyone's child except her own. i was an impressionable teenager, saw this, figured it didn't square with my life plans to eventually have house, spouse and children, and ran straight to law where i figured i could be a taitai (lady of leisure) after. unfortunately (or fortunately for the mister!), i like to work. and taitaidom is fast losing its lustre. being runner-up for "most likely to be a taitai" at both secondary school and lawsch (true story!) was ironically prescient. so close! 

now i really don't want to bore / disgust you with what went on in the delivery suite today but i thoroughly enjoyed schlepping around in blue scrubs and being with the midwives and mamas-to-be. the specialty trainees were awesome too! patient and nurturing, they took time to teach me and i got to scrub in to be an extra pair of hands during a c-section! there's a great energy to the place and i love being fueled by caffeine and adrenaline. reminds me of when i was a trainee lawyer! junkie-tendencies aside, i just had this massive epiphany that almost scares me because it's been awhile since i last felt so strongly about something. not since i applied to medsch, to be honest (oh ya, and getting married. sorry husband!) but this is proving to be a rather life-altering rotation. and of course O&G is the first thing i used to say i didn't want to do whenever i'm asked what i want to specialise in. because choosing your interest by the process of elimination works so well, not.

Tuesday, March 11, 2014

how to deal



it's not often i swing by this tumblr but occasionally things jump out at me. one of the funny things about taking the path less traveled is the tons of naysayers along the way. the singaporean auntie is one of them. i'm fortunate to have relatively thick skin when it comes to these things, but my poor mister often has (well-meaning?) aunties berating him for 'letting' me go back to school. and after they're done tsktsk-ing me, they turn their talons on him. it wouldn't be fair to generalise and say everyone who tells us we're crazy settled themselves. but it is irksome to feel like we need to repeatedly justify our life choices and that's why i rather say i'm a housewife (most recently on the plane and it worked! instant conversation killer :)) than go over the tired spiel.

and of course there's always the kind soul who's encouraging and tells us we're doing something awesome. we've met quite a few people like that lately and it's always nice to have someone say, "i know it's hard but it's gonna be so worth it!" in fact, we'd the absolute privilege of lunching with one of my heroes last week. he's one of the best neurosurgeons on the planet yet remains humble and unassuming. he's eschewed the siren call of private practice to operate on people who need him but can't afford him otherwise.

Sunday, March 9, 2014

probably the only crazy


who brings home a suitcase of bones for her dog. 

we roasted a huge leg of lamb from the butcher's recently, and guess which indulged rottie enjoyed the spoils of my culinary effort? it was so big i'd to break it into segments to fit the suitcase. thank goodness i'd the sense to check-in, if not there might have been some awkward questions to answer when clearing security. 

but the look on that happy face was worth the potential customs hassle. my emotionally manipulative sweetheart really puts me through the wringer each time i go home. he has the cheek to ignore me the first day, giving me a taste of my own medicine for his perceived abandonment. i mean, he practically makes me grovel before showing any affection! even the mister was laughing as dear doggy studiously ignored me despite my cooing and using the special voice reserved for him :(

Friday, March 7, 2014

haute / hawker


one of the things i admire most in the mister is his incredible ability to enjoy life at all levels. he's as content slurping our hawker centre breakfast as he is cruising the south china sea. and to me that's the beauty of singapore - there's something to be appreciated at every budget. we've little interest in the pseudo-atas cafes that are mushrooming around the island. as with most things, some are better than others and not to be hating but i don't understand why people complain about a 10cent increase in cheong fan price but the same people spend S$20 on two poached eggs and juice at a 'western' cafe. we're big fans of hawker centres and during our brief visits home, we'll pick beo crescent hokkien mee over les*amis any day (please don't let that stop you from inviting us to les*amis, we'll be there in a heartbeat!) but the fascination with fancy western (again) food is lost on us.   

and so it was that on my first morning back in singers, i sprung awake at 4am and couldn't get back to sleep. usually better with jetlag but my mind was in overdrive with our wedding emcee duties. and the mister, bless him, not only let me wake him up (chatter chatter chatter) but took me to commonwealth market for a local breakfast fix (above). after two satisfying plates of cheong fun and a bowl of chok,  we moseyed over to the next coffee shop for some prata and char siew noodles. we got choice seats facing the car park and marveled how only in singers would you have chinese, indian and malay sitting in a row, speaking english and reading the new paper. the way the various stalls were grouped together was familiar and comforting. the prata man next to the noodle aunty and the malay man running the drink stalll.

we road tripped to muar a few years ago and there was no such integration / assimilation. the chinese patrons and hawkers had one hawker centre, the malays had another and ne'er the twain shall meet. singers boleh and we'd such a lovely morning people watching from our seats as the sun rose and kids started going to school.


oh and after the wedding we went boating. it also reminded me of a post from a few years ago. so much and nothing has changed :)

Wednesday, March 5, 2014

no pressure

so we did something for the first time recently! the mister is an accomplished public speaker. from being a teenage debate champion (best speaker at national finals!) to representing singapore internationally for moots (incl winning best speaker in europe while on exchange) to being arrowed to emcee multiple school events and friends' weddings. he's practically professional. on the other hand, i think i've emceed one racial harmony concert back in the day (in mandarin no less) and the last time i spoke 'in public' was to deliver my grandfather's eulogy four years ago. mind you, the mister gave all the speeches at our three wedding celebrations and i was happy to stand and smile serenely by his side. 

however, when our dear friends tied the knot, they asked us to emcee their wedding. despite my protestations at being the charity case, certain it was only the mister they wanted but were being nice include me, they insisted, bless them, that they wanted us to do the honours. this sent me into a little panic and procrastinated till my flight home before putting pen to paper. this is probably me being overdramatic as, really, the emcee is merely the traffic warden, signposting the wedding and cue-ing in the speakers. but what warmed the cockles of my heart was how the mister used his free day before i got back to discuss the technical cues with the groom-to-be. and (undiscussed!) wrote half the emcee script, complete with timings and prompts, while unbeknownst to him, i filled in little anecdotes to introduce the speeches. when we sat down to run through our draft, we realised the two halves complemented each other and promptly went to the welcome party instead of revising it. the welcome party was a glamorous all white affair and because we were trying to maximise our short time home, we snuck out of that to join the mister's folks for a second dinner.

(photo lifted from the multi-talented weylin's fb page. she's a dear friend who did D&N's flowers and my wedding bouquet* in iceland!)

the wedding rolled round and i mean there were just 300+ people so really, no pressure :P what was sweet was how it was at the same place we'd our wedding lunch celebration 18 months ago and brought back many fond memories. although again we joked that the last time i was on that stage, i didn't have to say anything! it was a gorgeous, simple ceremony. heart-felt and brimming with love and joy. D & N are very special to us. i'm not normally emotional but remember welling up in the middle of the used car showroom last easter when they called to say D had popped the question in bali. and they're the only couple that's stayed with us in our tiny flat, squeezing on our tiny sofa (it's not even a sofa bed!) and saying it was comfortable when we know it wasn't. and we couldn't be happier to see them exchange vows. 

i don't think we were too terrible at emcee-ing but i was super nervous and kept gripping the mister's hand while speaking. didn't realise the podium stopped at chest level and am sure everyone saw my shaking legs as i clung on to the mister for dear life.  and if i could change one thing - i'd have gobbled down my delicious main instead of risking having it cleared while we were on stage :( but we live and learn, and now that's over and done with, i'm glad they trusted us with the honour and would do it again (ONLY FOR THEM!) in a heartbeat :)


(and here's my darling husband trying to reassure me that emcee-ing is just like being a traffic warden. unconvinced!)

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